![]() You start to use phrases like “we could/should”, and start making plans for an alternative future. Second date (Second Interview) and its still exciting, as you now know more about each other, your conversation is a little deeper and more meaningful. Suddenly the call comes! The mate (Headhunter) explains that his mate (Interviewer) really liked you and would like to meet you again (second Interview) you're flattered and a little excited. Even though you weren’t looking, you’re wondering whether the individual (Interviewer) enjoyed the discussion and wants a second date. Did they prefer you to other suitors? You wait for the next call and possibly another date. Over the next few days, the stranger pops up constantly in your conscious mind and you get distracted. You feel guilty and disloyal, but you also feel valued and excited about the possibilities. Your head screams ‘Wow, what if?’, whilst your heart tugs you to remain loyal in your existing, and so far, satisfying relationship. ![]() You stay longer than you should (The Interview runs over).Īfter an energising discussion, you leave (The Interview), thinking about the stranger you’ve just met, the opportunities that have been explored, and then you consider a hundred reasons why it wouldn’t work. ![]() You chat further and find the individual intriguing. You find yourself thinking about your compatibility and the benefits of a relationship. You (The Interviewee) get chatting and you both showcase who you are and what you offer. You get a call days later to say a blind date has been organised (The Interview) and, with enough information to know you are meeting a genuine individual, rather than a random Tinder stranger, you meet in the pub. You weren’t looking but it starts to sound tempting. Then one day, you get a call out of the blue from someone on behalf of a guy who really likes you. The caller says that their mate really admires you. They say flattering things, explain they have heard all about you and that their mate is really keen to meet you. So, you’re happy in your relationship – you have a lovely partner, great kids, super holidays and have a great home. Being headhunted is a bit like being pursued by an unexpected partner via their mate - hear me out! There are parallels to learn from dating relationships. Suddenly you are no longer satisfied with your lot and positively curious about the possibilities. So, what drives you to resign? Well, sometimes an opportunity presented isn’t that simple to shake off. The offeror is persistent and the more you hear about it, the more excited you get. So why would you leave a business that you feel so comfortable and secure in? Everything’s familiar, from knowing your colleagues and understanding the business, to where to get a cuppa and navigating your way around the building with your eyes closed. The scenario? You’re a loyal ambassador, with a great team, fabulous work colleagues and a well-balanced home life. Then suddenly they get into a spin as they meet someone who may offer them more than just their lot! There are, however, employees who have no intention of resigning, they are actually quite happy with their lot. Employees resign for a magnitude of reasons personal, relocation, money, promotion or pure disengagement.
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